How many times have you heard it’s all in your attitude? Well for a creative it really is in their attitude.
“Keep your face always toward the sunshine – and shadows will fall behind you.”
― Walt Whitman
“What is the difference between an obstacle and an opportunity? Our attitude toward it. Every opportunity has a difficulty, and every difficulty has an opportunity.”
― J. Sidlow Baxter
“If you say you can or you can’t you are right either way”
― Henry Ford
“Our beliefs about what we are and what we can be precisely determine what we can be”
― Anthony Robbins
“Winners Evaluate Themselves In A Positive Manner And Look For Their Strengths As They Work To Overcome Weaknesses.”
― Zig Ziglar
“Our Positivity repels the external negative energy and attract the positive energy.”
― Sukant Ratnakar
“Sometimes it takes a wrong turn to get you to the right place.”
― Mandy Hale, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass
My words, thoughts and deeds have
a boomerang effect.
So be-careful what you send out!”
― Allan Rufus,
Our outlook determines our outcome. It is true that attitude can make a huge difference. If you believe in the law of attraction, then you know well about the boomerang effect. You attract what you think.
Our thoughts are as powerful as our words. The words we speak put an energy into the atmosphere and we have what we say. If we say that we’ll never amount to anything – guess what? It’s true.
Here’s the catch though. Everything you say begins with a thought. If we direct our thoughts, then we can manipulate our future. Controlling those thoughts that were maybe planted by someone else in our past, and changing them by putting a positive spin on them can turn the negative energy around and create a positive energy.
I know, y’all think I’ve fallen off the deep end into psycho-babble land. I don’t normally get into the existential metaphysical mumbo jumbo stuff – but in the case of our thoughts and words I am firmly convinced there is some truth to it.
I am not asking you to believe the same as I do. It’s your own choice to change your future how you see fit.
Instead I want to share with you common outlook characteristics of the creative mind.
- Creatives turn life’s obstacles around. Think about how many songs, poems, and iconic stories stem from gut-wrenching pain and heartbreak. Like a Phoenix rising, some of the greatest silver linings came from life’s hardest challenges. Great art in any form is often fueled by emotions. The deepest emotions are created by tragedy, romance and heartbreak. A new form of psychological therapy for post traumatic stress disorder involves facing their hardships and trauma, to transfer into creative expressions of some sort. Whether the trauma is caused by loss of loved ones, facing combat, or surviving a tornado or hurricane karma therapy can affect the person to grow in areas of interpersonal relationships, spirituality, life appreciation, personal strength and creating the ability to see new possibilities in life.
“A lot of people are able to use that as the fuel they need to come up with a different perspective on reality,” says Kaufman. “What’s happened is that their view of the world as a safe place, or as a certain type of place, has been shattered at some point in their life, causing them to go on the periphery and see things in a new, fresh light, and that’s very conducive to creativity.”
“Since my house burned down
I now own a better view
of the rising moon.”
Mizuta Masahide was a Japanese samurai who wrote this simply haiku in 1688 after his house burned down. His ability to find an awakened awareness after this loss is remarkable.
Creatives tend to have that rebound, or phoenix outlook.
- They fail up – are resilient. Resilience is practically a prerequisite for any creative’s success. Doing creative work is often described as the process of failing over and over until you finally get lucky or something actually sticks. Successful creatives learn not to take failure so personally.
I’ve heard many times about Edison inventing the lightbulb. Edison was a prolific inventor, holding 1,093 US patents in his name yet what we remember him for is inventing the incandescent lightbulb. Edison made 1,000 unsuccessful attempts at inventing the light bulb. When a reporter asked, “How did it feel to fail 1,000 times?” Edison replied, “I didn’t fail 1,000 times. The light bulb was an invention with 1,000 steps.”
Resilience is what keeps a writer resubmitting to publishers after numerous rejections.
- They are risk takers. Part of doing creative work is taking risks, and many creative types thrive off of taking risks in various aspects of their lives.
“There is a deep and meaningful connection between risk taking and creativity and it’s one that’s often overlooked,” contributor Steven Kotler wrote in Forbes magazine. “Creativity is the act of making something from nothing. It requires making public those bets first placed by imagination. This is not a job for the timid. Time wasted, reputation tarnished, money not well spent — these are all by-products of creativity gone awry.”
Yet for the successful creative like Stephen King, J.K.Rowling, Mark Twain, and numerous others they are hailed as brilliant. What you don’t hear is the years of mocking and ridicule they took before they “made it”.
If you never take a risk and only stick to the safe path, you’ll live an unsatisfied life of the same daily rut until you die. Well at least that is my creative take on it. Life is to be lived, experienced to the fullest not for cowering in the corner of the what ifs.
- They see opportunities. They can see the bright side of things, and brilliantly come out of troubles in unusual ways. It’s said that the mother of invention is necessity. Witty inventions come when faced with a problem. The solution doesn’t occur until one is presented with a problem to solve. Every problem presents opportunity.
- They don’t like rules and boundaries. Many popular creatives in history have been labeled as rebels. In the movie Pirates of the Caribbean, Barbosa said the Pirate’s code is more like . . .guidelines. many creative feel this way about rules and boundaries.
Rules are set to push the boundaries. Boundaries are set to gauge what you push beyond. A creative mind looks at boundaries like a velociraptor views the perimeter fence, something to get beyond. If a creative followed the rule – stay inside the lines, the Mona Lisa would never have been painted. The Cysteine Chapel would be covered in tiles.
- They don’t like numbers. Creatives are brilliant and can really amaze you at times, but try to let them do the math and you will be surprised by how much they dislike numbers. Don’t put a creative in charge of the bank account, that’s not a smart idea. Accounting is a bad career choice for a creative. mathematician – also a bad idea. Scientist – bad, bad idea. For these careers you need someone with a logical mind that isn’t going to invent facts. Creatives are not only calculator dependent, they often have trouble with that part of cognitive thinking with weights and measures as well.
An interesting point to note, creative often are drawn to either evens or odds. Or in creative terms – symmetry or asymmetry. Some artists work in pairs, their work always balanced. Others work in odds, the asymmetry carrying out a realism aspect that subconsciously appeals to our sense of belief and order.
Do any of these apply to you? Can you recognize these characteristics in yourself or others in your life?
Previous posts in this series can be found here:
. The Creative Mind (https://quotidiandose.wordpress.com/2014/05/07/)
2. A Mentalist (https://quotidiandose.wordpress.com/2014/05/16/)
3. Time Bandits (https://quotidiandose.wordpress.com/2014/05/29/)
4. Expressions http:// quotidiandose.wordpress.com/2014/6/11/)
5. Head Games https://quotidiandose.wordpress.com/2014/06/18/head-games/
Write on my friends, write on! Let your creative juices flow!